Monday, January 23, 2012

The Science of Meeting

    Yesterday, in my survival Arabic class I learned something interesting. In Arabic, the word for sociology (علم الإجتماع) literally means "the Science of Meeting. I couldn't stop thinking about how wonderfully accurate that is in describing my life's current focus. sociology is not only a study of people but of interactions between them. It is a study of what happens when they come together. It is the same study regardless of whether that meeting of people be within a relationship, a society, a religion, or simply a new environment. Sociology studies how all of those different meetings impact the people involved in and around them. So as I come into this ridiculously fascinating new home, I cannot help but wonder what my personal sociological study will turn into. How will I (and the other students) be affected by being thrown into a world so vastly different from our own? Well, here's my attempt at explaining the beginning of that study. =]


GETTING THERE


 So, first things first. I wanted to text at least 5-6 people when this happened, but i'll just have to tell you all now. So, I'm sitting in Dulles, waiting for my plane, chilling out and then suddenly I see this guy. And I start freaking out. Ya'll this guy looked ridiculously similar to Ted Mosby from How I Met Your Mother. I was DYING. It was so fantastic and I was so upset I couldn't text you all so you could appreciate it. Anyways, that was exciting and all. So, the plane gets there and so begins a lovely 8 hour flight to our layover in Zurich, Switzerland.
    The plane ride really wasn't too bad, I sat next to a really lovely woman from Nairobi and while there WERE 5 small children aboard, they were mostly adorable with only a few screams during some of the rougher turbulence. So, overall no complaints. OH WAIT. THAT'S A LIE. I WAS FREAKING OUT OVER ALL THE GERMAN. Because the flight was headed to Zurich, tons of people of different nationalities were on board including my favorite Germans..well okay, they were more likely Swiss, but they spoke German and I was happy. I was only in Zurich for about 2 hours, but oh man. It was so hard to get on that plane to Cairo knowing I was leaving all the German behind. Luckily the next flight was on SWISS airlines, so everything was in English and German anyways, but I still miss it somewhat. Maybe it was a last minute freak-out reflex, but I LOVE German. I'm by no means fluent but I understand enough to have pretty good conversations with people and I just felt so at home being back in a German speaking country. GAHHH  I miss it. Anyways, sorry about the ranting. The flight was lovely, and that's about all.
Greenery to SAND... drastic much?
    Cairo Airport however, was my first taste of Egypt and honestly, it was just sort of funny. I couldn't believe how little security we went through to get into the country. It was wonderful. So I went through got my bags, and found the guy that was supposed to be picking me up and driving me to the dorms in Zamalek. I ended up not being his only passenger though, so I waited for the other two to arrive and well...who do you think happens to be one of them?? ONLY TED MOSBY LOOK ALIKE. Yeah. That Happened. No big deal. hahahahah It was great. I was laughing so hard internally it was pathetic. But, he's a great guy, and he's actually studied at AUC before so that's super convenient in terms of getting to know Zamalek quickly. Friendship success.
   






CAIRO The city itself will by far be the hardest part to write about. I simply do not know how to put Cairo into words. It's a city you have to see to understand. It is the epitome of contrast. Driving around one will see an incredible historical building, rich with culture and too many stories to count. This will be located directly next to the most modern banking building you've ever seen, which happens to also be right across from the saddest, dirtiest heap of buildings, and trash you've ever seen. I don't know what I imagined for Cairo but it's nowhere near what I got. I LOVE IT. Honestly, to some extent I'm not even sure why I love it so much. I don't like grimy cities. The fact that roads are literally covered in trash disgusts me and yet I cannot help but adore the insanity of this city. The discrepancies are so big it's amusing. Driving down the road one will see a BMW followed closely by a beaten up, falling apart bus and then suddenly you'll notice a man driving a cart pulled by a donkey loaded down with egg cartons piled HIGH. Nonetheless, it works. The people here make it work. It's amazing.
McDonalds bil Arabia
                                 

 Insanity:
    Oh also, on the note of crazy things about Cairo let me fill you in on a few more crazy details of this city. First, many, MANY of the houses are unfinished. And not...oh we haven't painted or need a basement. I mean GIANT mansions are left with entire walls
WAITING to be built. Even for the ones that are mostly finished, small things will be left untouched. A few beams might be sticking out the top of a beautiful home, part of a smaller wall might be waiting to be finished....who knows? But, there's a reason for this. You see, if you're home is unfinished you don't pay taxes on it. So people will purposely not finish houses. Somehow, I don't think this can possibly help create a society in which things are completed in both a timely and aesthetically pleasing manner...but not my country so I'll let them figure that one out.
    Second, don't flush the toilet paper. The sewage system in Cairo can't handle it. There are nifty little trashcans to throw all your paper products in when they're done. Weird.
   Third, and DEFINITELY most important. Driving in Cairo may be the world's most dangerous daily activity. Let me give you some road rules that seem to be followed here:
        1. Ignore all road rules
        2. Should you ACTUALLY happen to see lines on the road, ignore them and feel free to continue
             driving as you please
        3. Two lanes actually means four
        4. Driving with lights off is fine....just make sure to honk at night to let others know you're there
        5. Be sure to cram as many cars as possible onto the street
        6. Don't worry about red lights. They don't exist.
        7. Not enough room to park? Feel free to push others' cars to a better position until you can
            comfortably squeeze yours in.
        8. Try not to hit pedestrians crossing major intersections
        9. Avoiding people selling tissues and pepsi off the median is also preferable
       10. Accept the fact that you will never know when a road might be closed off due to a crash, sewage      
             leak etc. and be prepared to back up your giant bus even if it's in the middle of rush hour traffic

I wish this better showed how insane it is.

 I think that pretty much covers it. Cairo driving is ABSURD. It's hilarious, nerve-wracking and I love every minute of it. The rules of the road in Cairo pretty much seem to revolve around the idea of fending for yourself. Cars drive closer and faster than I have ever seen. It's amazing that Egyptians can navigate it.

       
 Dorm:
     The Zamalek dorms are wonderful. very pretty and our rooms are HUGE. We've got plenty of space, nice showers (minus the occasional lack of hot water) and a nice common area to hangout in before going to dinner, heading to bars or simply walking around. The other AUC study abroad students are fantastic. I LOVE my roommates Neama and Anjana. We have such a good time laughing and chatting.
     Speaking of meeting people...the first day I arrived was interesting. I came in knowing no girls whatsoever and by the time I got to the dorms themselves I already knew 4 guys. Two from school and 2 from the ride over. So, as we planned to go to dinner that night there sat 11 guys and me. The lone girl other than one RA. At dinner one of the girls thought i'd been in Zamalek for a few years already because of how well I seemed to know all the guys. hahahah Story of my life. One of our RAs is really hilarious, after 2 minutes of conversation decides to jokingly ask me out to embarrass me in front of all the lovely new people i'd just met. We're obviously going to be great friends. haha=] Well, I kinds asked for that one, eh? But, I really am loving getting to know everyone. The people here are really interesting, very driven and just generally easy to get along with. We went out to a bar the other night and just had an amazing time chatting and getting to know one another. Tonight we went and found a hookah bar to hangout in for a while and just chilled and joked around. LIFE IS GOOD.

SCHOOL
    So classes don't officially start until the 29th, but we have orientation until then. It's been long but not too bad so far. The bus ride to school is LONG, but the views are so intriguing and it's great for getting homework/sleep in when needed. AUC itself is BEAUTIFUL. I'm talking...it looks like I go to school at a resort. (i'm serious. Google image search: AUC Egypt campus) It was pretty windy the first day, but getting a chance to walk around it today I'm consistently amazed at how stunningly beautiful it is with it's architecture, palm trees and generally attractive male population. haha just kidding...sort of. Currently, I'm taking a "Survival Arabic" course which is basically a crash course in colloquial Arabic. The class is extremely long (5hours), but my teacher is so nice and insanely patient with me. Although, I will admit that patience wasn't all that necessary until we started reviewing numbers today. DARN YOU NUMBERS. I can't deal with them in English much less Arabic... But I do feel like I've learned a lot. I came in having not taken Arabic in about ten months and after 2 days I remember a ton, and learned more than I thought I could about the different pronunciations within the colloquial. I'm starting to pick up more and more words I hear around. LOVEEEEEEEE. But i'm still too intimidated to say anything more than "thank you",   "you're welcome",  and at one point I was in fact able to put together enough Arabic to ask if someone spoke English and where the bus was. Success? ehh...getting there=]

Anyways, that's pretty much all for now. Sorry for the absurdly long post. I love you all!

 مع السلامة

Friday, January 20, 2012

One Day I'll Fly Away, Leave All This To Yesterday

So, after a few months of praying, waiting and hoping.... I'M OFF TO EGYPT TODAY!You know that feeling you get before giving a presentation, diving off the high-board, or waiting at the top of the drop-zone at KD?? Welcome to my life since 7:30am.

In the past few weeks people were constantly asking me if I was excited for Egypt. My response to just about everyone was "No". It's not that I wasn't excited about my trip, I simply didn't even feel like I was going. The insanity of it all just hadn't hit me yet. Well, for those of you who were concerned, i'm happy to inform you that I OFFICIALLY feel like I'm going to Egypt. After staying up until 4am packing and watching Pride and Prejudice (had to get it in one more time before I left), I was woken up by my mother EARLY this morning and haven't been able to go to sleep since. But it's okay. It's my ultimate adrenaline rush.

Today i'm GOING. I'm heading off to a vastly different world from anything I know. I'm starting a magnificent adventure. While on the one hand I am extremely sad about leaving UVA, my house, friends and family. I know, that allowing another country to become home, even for a short while, is what I've been craving for a very long time. I cannot wait to walk the streets of Cairo and feel as if there is no where more normal. I cannot wait to show others my favorite places to eat in Zamalek. I cannot wait to see the Pyramids, the Sphinx, and the Nile. I cannot wait to try my Arabic with others and allow Egypt to completely envelop me.

The one thing I actually am fairly nervous about is that my faith will weaken without the daily encouragement and enthusiasm of those around me. But, I'm praying that I'll meet someone I can talk to, share with and lean on as I walk through this semester with God. In John 14:27, Christ says : Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world give. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." While the world may give me a temporary peace, God is offering me the eternal rest in knowing that in everything He is working for my good. So, I cannot worry too much about anything as I take off, because thankfully, God always knows exactly what i need to hear=]

So, in 7.5 hours I will be on a plane headed to Zurich, and then from there headed to Cairo. By 8am tomorrow I will have touched down in the land of the pyramids. That's gonna be a culture shock. Until then, I love you all and i'm praying for you!


Isaiah 41:10
DO NOT FEAR, for I am with you
DO NOT DISMAY, for I am your God.
I WILL STRENGTHEN and HELP you.
I WILL UPHOLD you, with my RIGHTEOUS right hand.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

The Waiting Game.

Well, this is what it comes down to: Prayer, Hope and Trust.

Egypt in the past few weeks has gotten fairly dangerous in terms of rioting and arrests. But, regardless. I still want to go there more than anywhere else. Egypt is such an enticing place in so many ways, but I do understand everyone's concerns about going over there now. Luckily, for all those concerned, the government is with you. Should things get a tad TOO crazy, the state department can shut down the exchange program and I will be placed somewhere else for the semester. Hopefully the elections this week go well and i'm granted the opportunity to spend my semester enjoying the commotion of Cairo, the history of Giza and the beauty of the Nile, but it's possible that the elections only incite more craziness and i'm forced somewhere else.

So, until then all I can do is wait, watch and pray with the knowledge that God knows best. Would I love to know now, and be able to fully prepare for my time in another culture, with another language, with new people and new adventures to pursue? Yes. Of course. But, I also realize that God HAS a plan for me. He knows where I'm headed, He knows my needs, He knows the desires of my heart and above all, He wants to see my happy. So, while I could spend my time wallowing in my frustration, in the end it's just not worth it. Regardless of where I go I will be somewhere NEW, somewhere EXCITING and inevitably enjoy the adventure of a lifetime. So, trust it is. I'm trusting that in all things I need not fear. My God, my hope is in you.

Psalm 39:7 "But Now Lord, what do I look for? My HOPE is in you"
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