Saturday, March 28, 2015

Wandering Home

I've been home exactly a month now, but still have yet to be fully "home". I have spent each weekend gallivanting to new places and catching up with friends in an ongoing attempt to prevent early-onset adulthood. While most of these adventures were of the ordinary, fun sort (trips to New York and Princeton, Charlottesville, and NOVA) one of them was quite extraordinary and deserves at least a little mention. The Roadtrip to Texas.

One of my best friends the stunning and adventurous Amanda Hall, had gotten a  job in Texas saving some sea turtles (as you do), and needed someone to roadtrip down with her. Well, seeing as I was desperate to ignore the looming pressures of adulthood and I hadn't seen my Austin-residing sister Tess in about 2 years this seemed like the PERFECT excuse to say UHH HELL YEAH. And so we were off.

I won't bore you with crazy details but here's basically what our life was like for 10 days.

Mar 10: Amanda and I left super early in order to make it to Nashville by early evening. Pit stops were of course made for Foam Henge and Chic-fil-A. Once we arrived we ran to the Grand Ole Opry to take pictures and then wander around the Opryland Hotel which has a RIVER in it. Because you know, MONEY. After proceeding to get desperately lost, we went to downtown Nashville grabbed a delicious dinner and enjoyed hearing all the live-music pump out of the nearby bars. Eventually we made it to the lovely Taylor's house. Taylor, an awesome friend of mine from high school offered to put us up for the two nights we were in town which was SO great. She gave us a list of great things to do and places to go which was super helpful.


Mar 11:NASHVILLE Day 2 in Nashville was PRODUCTIVE. Like, touring the Grand Ole Opry, taking pictures at the Ryman, listening to live music downtown and visiting the Country Music Hall of Fame. Then, just to top it off we got to go watch a friend of Taylor's sing the public debut of her own, original songs. SUPER cool. We also made sure to enjoy what have been voted the country's BEST Biscuits, and some supah good southern BBQ.

Mar 12: MEMPHIS Originally the plan was to wear Elvis wigs and tour Graceland. But, instead we wandered the city a bit, went to the National Civil Right Museum (which was AWESOME and everyone should go to), enjoyed delicious catfish and po-boys, took pics outside the gate of Graceland, and went into a hotel that kept live ducks in their indoor fountain. Classic Memphis. Then we drove until we could drive no longer and crossed into Mississippi and then Louisiana before stopping for the night to sleep.



Mar 13: NEW ORLEANS It took some figuring out, but Amanda and I eventually made it to New Orleans and checked into our hotel after getting some delicious Vietnamese food at this super sketchy back alley place. We spent the majority of the day just wandering the city, enjoying the ability to drink and sightsee simultaneously. After singing along with the dueling piano's at Pat O' Briens, set off on a haunted tour of New Orleans with Amanda's cousin and her bf. Alright, it was a bit expensive for just storytelling, but the stories were creepy, true (or were they?) and the guide was engaging. No complaints from me. Plus we topped it all off with some phenomenal Jambalaya. BOOM BABY.

Mar 14: NEW ORLEANS Saturday was probably our most unexpectedly enjoyable day. We found out the day before that there would be a St. Patty's Day Parade, and we though 'eh? why not give it a go?' and so off we went. walking miles downtown, worried we were going the wrong way, only to find the most EPIC St. Patty's Day Parade ever! Beads, cabbages, potatoes, flowers (but only for a kiss), lucky charms, garters and whatever else people considered "Irish-y" got thrown at the crowd. I swear the people next to us thought we were drunk due to the large amount of screaming and giggling Amanda and I were doing (don't worry you concerned citizens--we were pretty friggin sober). It turned into a competition to get as many beads as we could until the end when our necks could barely sustain the weight of them all. But after jingling our way to the car to dump our prizes, we wandered to the French Market to look at all the fun market-y things and enjoy some more po-boys for our last evening in Louisiana!

Mar 15: DRIVING I'm gonna be honest, nothing all THAT exciting happened this day except that we entered TEXAS and at the info center got to see both an alligator and turtles. Then we took jumping pictures. ALSO I got to see my sister for the first time in 2 years. So that was cool I guess. Other than that we went to go get some Texan toast burgers (which Amanda ate with a fork and both Tess AND Amanda cut in half. What i'm trying to say is i'm the most American one here.) 

Mar 16: AUSTIN The only truly important part of this day was when we went to Banger's, which is a restaurant that pretty much only sells sausages. While there we listened to live music, enjoyed our first Lone Stars, contemplated getting the free tattoo offered by the restaurant and generally enjoyed the Austin atmosphere.


Mar 17: AUSTIN FOR ST. PATTY'S This night was hilarious. We spent the majority of it at an Irish bar on 6th Street dancing with a dude who looked like and artsy RDJ and discussing the best Disney Channel movies while people 15 years our senior attempted to flirt with us. SOLID night of st Patty's

Mar 18: AUSTIN FOR AMANDA'S BIRTHDAY! YAY! AKA THE BEST NIGHT EVER. Okay, maybe not ever but it is the night we ran into Shia Labeouf and his girlfriend. So, PRETTY FRIGGIN GOOD. Basically, we had decided that we wanted to do two-stepping while in Austin because, well, why not? So we found this tiny yet well-known little dance hall and headed there around 8pm. The first hour we were there was like a two-stepping lesson where we just watched people figure out how to do this whole thing until the band came on. So Tess got called up cause someone needed an extra partner--so amanda and I are just chilling on the sidelines watching people dance when this kid shows up who vaguely looks like Shia. SO I turn to amanda and was like 'Amanda! Doesn't this dude look like Shia Labeouf?' Then, upon noticing his rattail which Shia has been prominently displaying as of late, I thought to myself 'wait. No way this is ACTUALLY Shia. It can't be. That doesn't just HAPPEN. But wait, it's SXSW. MAYBE?!' And it was at this point I started to mentally freak out JUST a tad. And by a tad I mean I may have started shaking a bit out of excitement (i'm basically a puppy it's fine). THEN HIS GIRLFRIEND CAME UP BESIDE HIM AND I LOST MY FRIGGIN MIND. Because I had just recently seen a picture of them together, the MOMENT I saw her I knew it was him and flipped completely. At this point Amanda and I, who had previously decided not to dance til the band came on, were losing it and decided WE MUST DANCE NOW. And so we got up and pretended to know how to two-step right behind Shia and his GF. Eventually we were able to call this whole situation to Tess' attention, who also freaked out. And so that was our night. Amanda remained on Shia watch the rest of the night, we accidentally ran into them a few times on the dance floor, but generally pretended to remain totally cool and not ruin their little two-stepping date night even though there was a general understanding that he knew that we knew who they were and were casually watching them the entire night. It was glorious and i thought....WELCOME TO SXSW BABY. BOOM.


Mar 19: AUSTIN This day we wandered around a bit, had the third round of breakfast tacos for the week, and ended with a sweet outdoors concert for SXSW.



Mar 20: AUSTIN AND DALLAS AND TESS'S BIRTHDAY! YAY! Unfortunately I couldn't stay in town for the whole of Tess' bday and Amanda had to run off to her ACTUAL job location that morning. But, I did get to grab a last lunch with Tessie before I headed off to Dallas to hang out with the FANTASTIC Anna and her plane-flying lover boy Zack. I found out SUPER last minute that Anna lived in Dallas and she was kind enough to let me barge in on her life and crash at her place even for a SUPER short time. Literally though like I showed up for an hour, hung out, made her drive me to the event I came to Dallas for, got back to Anna's at like midnight, chatted, then was like 'right. So I need to hit the airport by 6am.'AND THEY TOOK ME. LET IT BE KNOWN ANNA AND ZACK ARE THE BEST. Also I was really excited to catch up with them after 1.5 year abroad. But wait....I forgot to mention why I was actually in Dallas. Two of my absolute favourite  people from when I studied abroad in Egypt GOT ENGAGED!!! And I was lucky enough to be out there at the same time so that I could be apart of the excitement. So Congrats to the stunning ANJANA and phenomenal JOHNNY! SO Pumped for them both.


All that to say, it was totally the best road trip ever. We went into it just hoping to see Tess, get to an engagement and see some cities. Instead, we saw friends, cousins, live music, a celebrity, danced with strangers, saw a weird kiwi comedy that we loved, caught SXSW, ran into St. Patty's Day in New Orleans, almost got tattoos in Texas and generally lived it up for 10 days.

Thursday, February 26, 2015

SURPRISE SURPRISE

Well my friends already know; as does everyone here in NZ. BUT, my family is, as of this moment, completely unaware that I am headed their way in the not too distant future. After much research and prayer---and a chat with my lovely sister Tess--I became convinced that for the girl who loves birthdays (me) there would be nothing more gratifying or exhilarating than popping home on the day of my mother's 60th. I mean, I would want that if I was a mom! So the world travels are being put on hold for a bit until after  this  little adventure. But tickets are  bought and I’m freaking excited.

Feb 18: Hitchhike: Hanmer Springs to  Christchurch—2HRS
Feb 18: Bus: Christchurch to Picton—5HRS
Feb 18: Ferry: Picton to Wellington—3.5HRS
Feb 19: Taxi: Wellington Ferry to Wellington Airport—30MIN
Feb 19: Plane: Wellington to Sydney—3.5HRS
Feb 19: Plane: Sydney to DC—13.25HRS

Total: 27.75 HOURS of travel in 2 calendar days 

And so, while you all are getting this post long after I’ve gotten home, for me the countdown has just begun. 

27 days: ‘til I leave
28 days: ‘til I’m back in the USA
31 days: ‘til mi madre gets the surprise of her life

BOOM BABY. 

Diary of life until my return:

Jan 25---Friends agree to help with surprise

Jan 29---Gave in and told Tess that I'm coming home. She's excited. i can't wait to see her.

Jan 30---Had an interview today with a company I'd really like to work for. It went AWESOME. Love the people, love the mission. So good. Now just waiting to hear back. Applies for my superannuation today as well--really want to get my money back so that I can plan my trip to Europe. Thinking i might have to cut it down a bit which sucks...just money-wise though. ugh.

Feb 7---Claire unknowingly came up with the best way to surprise mom. WIN.

Feb 8---Got my super coming back to me and my tax refund from Aussie too!!! WOOT WOOT! But still waiting to hear back from the job. Nerves on edge. ALSO: 10 DAYS LEFT.

Feb 13---Enjoyed a final weekend in Christchurch thanks to awesome people.

Feb 17--FINAL DAY IN HANMER. So sad to leave. Especially hard to say goodbye to Mara and David. So strange to leave a place I've called home for almost 3 months.

Feb 18--THE JOURNEY BEGINS. 

Feb 19---Seriously though, it's been the longest 2 days ever. so many flights, buses, passenger bays, ferries, random conversations with people it's been insane. I met a writer from NYC after the ferry and spent the 1.5 hours we couldn't get into the airport in Wellington chatting with her at a cafe about life and travel. Then the 14 hour flight from Sydney to LAX I met a lovely woman from Melbourne who split her time between LA (where her husband is) and Melbourne (with her daughters). I'll be honest. 
     Today is strange. I arrived in LAX and have been feeling sick in my stomach since I landed. I think this is partially due to the feeling that this is just a quick getaway and i'll be back in NZ again soon. But...it's not. The tears haven't come yet, but I'm betting touch down in DC will do it. (Repeat of Post-Egypt anyone?) And while, in many ways I am sad and angry that i'm not in NZ anymore, the past few hours waiting at LAX have begun to remind me why I love the US. I've missed seeing faces of every race you could imagine mixed together into families and friends. Hearing languages from all over the world all crammed into one little building. New Zealand and Australia are stunning. I could happily live in Sydney weather, wasting time on the beach and having a winter that feels like Virginia Autumn. But, oh how I have missed the variety. I love seeing families of loving mixed race parents with beautiful babies. Of hearing Spanish on one side of me, Korean on the other and Arabic across from me. The US has its problems, no denying that. But, nothing can beat watching people of every background doing life together. Side by side, working hard to just love those around them. Some things are universal and I feel privileged to get to see those universal commonalities every single day in the US. Right now, I am proud to be an American. This country of mutts, this mixing pot of the world.=]

OH and I get to see my best friends tonight! AHHHH FREAKING OUT.


Feb 22-- Surprised mi madre today and it was BRILLIANT. I mean i seriously could not have asked for a better reaction. I kept looking back at my friends who were filming and all of us were crying we were laughing so hard. It was SO SO funny. I think we got as close to giving her a heart attack as we could without ACTUALLY killing her. This is wh.at happened:

My friends arrived and gave her gifts (6 chocolates, 6 balloons, 6 pictures etc) I'm hiding in the car at this point.


The last gift is a 6 minute phone call with yours truly! I'm still in the car at this point. Until of course, she opens the door and realizes i'm NOT in NZ.

Hugging continues after the initial shock wears off. Tears of laughter everywhere. Except for my mom who was actually crying out of nervous excitement. Totally worth the lying.


Feb 26--I should have posted this ages ago, but now I can give you all an update on what life has been like since I've been back! WHAT?! so awesome. Totally what you wanted right? I know. 
Well, my body has been attacking me from the moment I arrived stateside due to it's confusion over why I would go from 80* (26* C) weather to 15* (-10* C) weather. SO I've been attempting to recover from that. But, since I had to cancel my epic Europe plans due to lack of funds, I have trip after trip planned for the US! YAY! So i'm headed to Princeton and NYC this weekend to see friends, followed by Charlottesville/Richmond trips next week then an EPIC road trip with the one and only Amanda Hall from here to Austin in a couple weeks! With stops by Knoxville, Nashville, San Antonio Houston and perhaps New Orleans along the way. So, while it's been taking some adjustment to get back into US life, I can't complain. I have incredible friends and family that I've been able to spend loads of time with and more adventures to come. God is good.=]